Heart of a Planner, Wisdom of Erasable Ink

As I sit here, just after eagerly unwrapping my new paper 2025 planner, I can’t help but smile at the irony. You see, I’m a devoted planner – someone who finds deep joy in neatly writing out schedules, goals, and to-do lists. I love crossing tasks off a to-do list. I love keeping record of my plans and even add in extra silly holidays like September 19’s “Talk Like a Pirate Day.”

And yet, I always reach for my erasable pen when I put ink to paper. Why? Because life has taught me a valuable lesson, one that echoes the wisdom found in Proverbs 16:9:

People plan their path, but the LORD secures their steps.” (CEB)

This verse reminds us that while we may chart our path with the best intentions, it’s ultimately God who guides our journey. (Remember the plans you thought you had made in 2020?) My erasable pen serves as a humble reminder of this truth. It allows me to plan with purpose while remaining open to the divine redirection that often comes our way.

Similarly, Psalm 37:23-24 offers us this reassurance:

A person’s steps are made secure by the LORD when they delight in his way.
Though they trip up, they won’t be thrown down, because the LORD holds their hand.” (CEB)

Just as my erasable ink allows for changes without marring the page, God’s guiding hand ensures that our missteps and changed plans don’t define our journey. Instead, they become part of the beautiful, sometimes messy, always grace-filled story God is writing with our lives.

As you reflect on your own experiences, consider:

  • When has God redirected your carefully laid plans in unexpected ways?
  • How have you seen God’s divine hand at work, even in moments of apparent setback or change?
  • What lessons have you learned about balancing careful planning with openness to God’s leading?

Embracing the Unwritten Future

As I look at my new planner, pages crisp and empty, I’m reminded of the blank canvas that each new day presents. With my erasable pen in hand, I’m prepared to write, erase, and rewrite as needed. This practice has become more than just a planning method – it’s a spiritual discipline that keeps me humble and open to God’s ongoing work in my life and ministry.

Here are some final thoughts to consider as we navigate the delicate balance between planning and trusting:

  1. Plan with Purpose, Hold with Open Hands View your plans as a compass, not a cage. Let them point you in the right direction without restricting God’s ability to lead you on unexpected adventures
  2. Find Joy in the Journey Remember that God is as interested in the process of our growth as God is in the outcome. Each erased plan is an opportunity to draw closer to God and understand God’s ways better.
  3. Trust the Master Planner When our plans change, it’s not a sign of failure, but an invitation to trust more deeply. God sees the bigger picture and is working all things together for good (Romans 8:28).

As you go about your week, I encourage you to plan with intention but to hold those plans loosely. Write your goals and dreams in your planner, but keep that erasable pen handy. For in the erasing and rewriting, in the adjusting and adapting, we often find the most profound moments of God’s grace and guidance.

May your steps be firm, your heart be open, and your plans be ever-aligned with God’s perfect will. And remember, even when life seems to erase our carefully laid plans, God is writing a story far more beautiful than we could ever imagine.

Holy God, we love to plan out the course of our life and we love to have some sort of sense of control in a world that sometimes seems chaotic. Help us to trust that you have a divine plan for our lives. We pray that you will direct our steps and we will be faithful to follow. Amen.

Blessings, ESJ

Final Lent Devotional: Ending

Ulster Project Tearfest

As I scroll through my camera roll looking for images of endings, a sense of melancholy overwhelms me. There are so many endings – moving, graduations, seeing loved ones for final goodbyes. The harder ones are the recent unexpected endings: sports seasons cut unexpectedly short, church buildings full for the last time before quarantine, early ending to a school year.

“There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven.

A time to give birth and a time to die;
A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted.
A time to kill and a time to heal;
A time to tear down and a time to build up.
A time to weep and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn and a time to dance.
A time to throw stones and a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace and a time to shun embracing.
A time to search and a time to give up as lost;
A time to keep and a time to throw away.
A time to tear apart and a time to sew together;
A time to be silent and a time to speak.
A time to love and a time to hate;
A time for war and a time for peace.”

We can take heart in knowing that every ending can also mark the beginning of something new. The picture with this message is from the Ulster Project Tearfest. In Ulster Project, American teens host Northern Irish teens for a month full of activity. The teens form deep, lifelong friendships and learn to love one another like family, which makes the inevitable saying “goodbye” a tear-filled event for everyone. While we are sad about saying goodbye to things and people we love, we can take heart in knowing something new will come…and we can be grateful for having had the opportunity to love so deeply.

As resurrection people, we know that the worst things are never the final things. And as in resurrection, we know that, although goodbyes can be hard, we have a promise of new and beautiful things to come.

As we close our Lenten photo challenge devotional series, I bring you a Seneca quote made famous in the 1990’s song “Closing Time”:

Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.

Lent Devotional: Fool

Kids and Sand Castles

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.”

Matthew 7:24-27

Did you know that there are expert consultants in sand castle building?

In 2011, I took a youth group to the beach and we hired a sand castle expert teach us how to make elaborate sand castles. His team brought buckets, shovels and special carving tools. We learned special techniques to make elaborate spires and the like. Naturally, we broke into small groups and had a friendly competition on which group could make the best castle.

Our creations were gone before the end of the day. Most sand castles are not quite as elaborate, but the act of making something and molding the wet sand is like no other. No matter if you spend hours working on an elaborate sand fortress, or you are just trying to build something as quickly as possible before your toddler smashes it, eventually sand castles are meant to fall.

You shouldn’t get emotionally attached to a sand castle. We definitely couldn’t live in one.

As the scripture reminds us, we don’t even want to build our foundation on the shifting sand. In the same way, there are many things in our life that are not permanent after all. But God remains faithful and our faith is a solid foundation. More than ever, we can remember to build our foundation on the Solid Rock that is found in God alone. As we face struggles of any kind, we can rely on the foundation of our faith to keep us strong.

May you find joy in this April Fool’s Day as you walk in wisdom.

Prayer: God, thank you for being our firm foundation. Every new day we remember that we can count on you. May we find joy in this day you have made. Amen.

Scriptures: Matthew 7:24-27, 22:23-33 and 1 Corinthians 1:18-31

Reflection Questions: In what way is your faith helping you today? Where can you find support and peace today?